keeping the peace during a nursing home transition

You and your spouse pledged to remain together in sickness and health, but aging may be making this promise difficult to keep. Fortunately, there are many options that can help you and your significant other stay together as the years pass. The following guide can help introduce you to the various senior living possibilities that are available.

Independent living options

Assisted living isn't necessarily nursing care. If you and your spouse are still capable of much of the responsibilities of living together on your own, then independent assisted living arrangements are a good option. In this arrangement, you get your own private apartment or condominium but you have access to a variety of community areas, such as pools, game rooms, or entertainment areas.

There is also assistance available for light housekeeping chores or minor daily living needs. This works well if you and your spouse can no longer vacuum or sweep due to mobility issues, but are otherwise able to take care of yourselves. It is also a good option when one spouse needs more help than the other can provide; for example, when one person needs help with daily bathing or hygiene needs. This way you can continue to live together with a maximum amount of independence.

Skilled Nursing Centers

Skilled nursing care, sometimes called nursing homes, provided assisted living options for those that need around-the-clock care or more regular assistance throughout the day. This is usually due to major mobility or health issues, or due to those with Alzheimer's or otherwise needing memory care. This may seem like a challenge when only one half of the couple needs such care.

Fortunately, there are shared facilities that cater to married couples. Generally, the couple is provided with a suite which has a private bath, bedroom, and living area. There may also be a small kitchenette available. The spouse that requires full time skilled nursing care has access to it, while the other spouse has more independence while still reaping the benefits of assisted living. Nurses and other health professionals are always on call and on duty to help with anything that you need, as well as to aid in providing any necessary health treatments. There are also dining services, both private in-room and in the dining room, available to both spouses.

Many senior living options offer step-up programs, which means you can move from an independent living arrangement into a skilled nursing arrangement as you age and need more help. This way, you can remain with your loved one throughout your golden years. Contact an assisted living facility in your area, such as Grace Assisted Living, for more help.